By Carly Rose Elson
WeNews correspondent
Friday, August 31, 2012
Lida
moved from a subsistence existence in rural Cambodia to a senior staff
job at a women's advocacy organization in the city. But she still
wonders what would have happened if she had said "yes" to a beautiful
foreigner at a pagoda three years ago.
Lida was a young girl in the post-Khmer Rouge years. At a time when 25 percent of the Cambodian population had just been murdered during a government-led genocide, her father revealed that he had another wife and family in a different village. He abandoned Lida, her mother and her sibling.
Not long after, Lida's mother crossed the Thai border looking for work to sustain her family. After nearly a year, she sent word to the family of the date she would be crossing the border back home. She never showed up. To this day, no one knows what happened to her, or if she is even alive. It was common then for thieves and human traffickers to target Cambodian women returning across the Thai border, since it was likely the women were carrying money they had saved up from their labor.